GOTU'S THOUGHTS

When one has gone through trauma, heartbreak, hardships, disappointments, and other life's miseries, love is the best medicine for that person. If someone has witnessed their parents quarrel, separation, or had difficult parents, then the best thing for them is to be loved and respected by the people around them. The person who has gone through various difficulties also needs to be emotional, kind, and loving to others. They do not need to dry up their emotions from within. B

Some people offer good advice to others, but they struggle to follow their own advice in similar situations. That could be due to multiple factors. Lack of self-confidence or even due to self-criticism. It is generally easy to advise others, but to follow our own advice, we need 3 things. Determination: Be firm, have strong emotions. Once you decide to do something, follow it. Consistency follows determination. Discipline: One needs to discipline oneself. When you are discipl

This is what it feels like when you are in love, from a male’s perspective, from my own personal experience. Everything suddenly starts looking beautiful. You will appreciate the weather more. You tend to behave better and feel like you should be your best. When you are near the person you love, you will feel like all your miseries are gone, you feel purified, and all your ill thoughts (even lust) also vanish. You are basically the happiest you have ever been. You become emot

After losing my parents, especially after losing my mother, I noticed how the home feels like a deserted place. A home without the presence of a female does not feel like home. Females are divine; they may be hard to understand, but their emotions are genuine, and they only want the best for their family. Most men do not appreciate the advice of their female members in the family, whether it could be the sister or daughter, mother or wife, and often undervalue their emotions.