GOTU'S THOUGHTS

If you listen to your mind, it will likely sound logical and practical. If you listen to the heart, it will likely sound dreamy and grand. An ideal balance would be following both mind & heart; however, in emotional matters, following the heart is more idealistic. Because the mind tends to be practical yet selfish, whereas the heart is giving and devotional. The mind cannot understand the value of emotions; it will try to be calculative, but in emotional matters, being calcul

I believe that the ego is essentially the childish aspect of human nature. The ego becomes a hurdle when your anger gets the best of you. When things do not go your way, and you get angry, that is the ego at work. Anger and ego go hand in hand. Arguments are also signs of ego. Wanting things to go your way can be a sign of ego. Always wanting to be at the top is a sign of ego. Devotion is one of the best ways to dissolve the ego. Unconditional love is also one of the best way

I believe that a  man has to be the stable one in the relationship dynamics. Because most women, by nature, are lively, sensitive, highly emotional, and full of life, there is a lot of feminine energy bursting forth with full force. A calm man is the ideal base to handle this force. If the man is not mature enough and is also anxious, then it gets difficult to manage the love of his life. A woman can also be calm, but it is highly likely that she might struggle to handle a ma

The Good Chaebols K-Drama Concept is my first short story book available in kindle. See the sample here .