GOTU'S THOUGHTS

If you listen to your mind, it will likely sound logical and practical. If you listen to the heart, it will likely sound dreamy and grand. An ideal balance would be following both mind & heart; however, in emotional matters, following the heart is more idealistic. Because the mind tends to be practical yet selfish, whereas the heart is giving and devotional. The mind cannot understand the value of emotions; it will try to be calculative, but in emotional matters, being calcul

I believe that the ego is essentially the childish aspect of human nature. The ego becomes a hurdle when your anger gets the best of you. When things do not go your way, and you get angry, that is the ego at work. Anger and ego go hand in hand. Arguments are also signs of ego. Wanting things to go your way can be a sign of ego. Always wanting to be at the top is a sign of ego. Devotion is one of the best ways to dissolve the ego. Unconditional love is also one of the best way

I believe that a  man has to be the stable one in the relationship dynamics. Because most women, by nature, are lively, sensitive, highly emotional, and full of life, there is a lot of feminine energy bursting forth with full force. A calm man is the ideal base to handle this force. If the man is not mature enough and is also anxious, then it gets difficult to manage the love of his life. A woman can also be calm, but it is highly likely that she might struggle to handle a ma

The Good Chaebols K-Drama Concept is my first short story book available in kindle. See the sample here .

Why do we fall in love? Is it because someone is looking very beautiful? Or is it their nature? Here is what I think is the psychology behind love. It is just the looks, then I believe that it is more about lust than actual love. When someone speaks very sweetly to a person who has never been praised or shown affection by others, especially by their own family members, it may be one of the core reasons behind falling in love with that person. Kindness is a rare feature in the

When one has gone through trauma, heartbreak, hardships, disappointments, and other life's miseries, love is the best medicine for that person. If someone has witnessed their parents quarrel, separation, or had difficult parents, then the best thing for them is to be loved and respected by the people around them. The person who has gone through various difficulties also needs to be emotional, kind, and loving to others. They do not need to dry up their emotions from within. B

Some people offer good advice to others, but they struggle to follow their own advice in similar situations. That could be due to multiple factors. Lack of self-confidence or even due to self-criticism. It is generally easy to advise others, but to follow our own advice, we need 3 things. Determination: Be firm, have strong emotions. Once you decide to do something, follow it. Consistency follows determination. Discipline: One needs to discipline oneself. When you are discipl

This is what it feels like when you are in love, from a male’s perspective, from my own personal experience. Everything suddenly starts looking beautiful. You will appreciate the weather more. You tend to behave better and feel like you should be your best. When you are near the person you love, you will feel like all your miseries are gone, you feel purified, and all your ill thoughts (even lust) also vanish. You are basically the happiest you have ever been. You become emot

After losing my parents, especially after losing my mother, I noticed how the home feels like a deserted place. A home without the presence of a female does not feel like home. Females are divine; they may be hard to understand, but their emotions are genuine, and they only want the best for their family. Most men do not appreciate the advice of their female members in the family, whether it could be the sister or daughter, mother or wife, and often undervalue their emotions.

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