GOTU'S THOUGHTS

I recently realised one thing: since everyone is unique, emotional maturity will differ for everyone. Plus, there needs to be consideration of how each individual was raised, has gone through, and is going through in life, as maturity and growth are a constant process. I always wondered why my nephew is much more mature than I, till I realised that despite having similar parental experience, his financial status is much different, he has not gone through what I have, differen

Instead of blindly following everything told to you, in any field of life, it's better to have your own philosophy and inner beliefs. Considering that historical information could have been modified. Generally, having a strong moral sense and knowledge of what is right and wrong is good. Combine that with the inner voice, philosophy, and beliefs, and you will rarely do something you do not believe in. Regarding faith and religion, following traditions is a good thing and logi

Someone gave me words of wisdom when I shared about the grief of the loss of my parents. She said you should not forget about them, but not let the loss overwhelm you. This really helped me. If she had said something like you are stuck in past, it would not have helped me heal through this grief, but her words actually healed me and helped me overcome this grief. Such is the power of wise advice. You never know how sound advice might help someone reach a breakthrough. Just y

I had an online friend from abroad block me recently. As I went through the block, I had a lot of self-realisations. Including the fact that no one can replace her. What we have is a unique bond based on philosophical exchanges, deeper conversations about various aspects of life and relationships. Her words of wisdom heal me; she felt like a guru to me. I told her that you purify me. I finally realised that each one of us is unique. Even when I was interacting with other frie